Ultra-Orthodox and Prolonged Single hood: Finding a Partner, Negotiating with God

Abstract

The ultra-Orthodox community in Israel is witnessing a phenomenon of prolonged singlehood. Based on semi-structured interviews with 20 ultra-Orthodox prolonged male and female singles of diverse affiliations, the study suggests that prolonged singlehood has impacted participants’ faith and practiced religiosity. Interviewees described their disappointment in God and their sense that He is testing their faith. They also testified to a decrease in their observance, especially concerning praying, abiding by kosher rules, and maintaining modesty. The decline in religious practice and belief was attributed to a crisis of faith, the loosening of imposing social ties, and the need to satisfy physical and emotional needs.